Most women who come to me have already seen many doctors. They’re smart, successful, and used to solving problems - but when it comes to their health, they feel dismissed, confused, or simply stuck. I know how that feels, because I’ve been there myself.

I'm not your typical pain specialist. As both a patient and physician, I’ve spent over two decades helping women reclaim clarity and control in a system that wasn’t built for them.
My mission is to translate complexity into clarity, so women can make informed decisions and find a way forward.
I blend medical science with lived experience - both mine and that of the women I serve.
I help women understand what could be happening in their bodies by translating medical information into meaningful language. I help connect fragmented information to see the bigger picture - because healing starts with understanding your symptoms, patterns, and root causes.
Guiding you through broken systems:
The healthcare system can be overwhelming. Many women get stuck, not because they lack motivation, but because they lack a map of steps to move forward. I teach women how to work with their doctors, advocate for themselves, and move through barriers with confidence and calm.
Turning insight into action:
Knowledge is only powerful when applied. I help women translate understanding into real-world change - actionable steps that improve health, restore energy, and rebuild trust in their own bodies.

"I don't want you to be frustrated with your healthcare providers. I want you to understand their limitations, work within them, and take control of everything else."
- Dr. Brenda Lau

For over 25 years, I’ve helped reshape how pain care is delivered in Canada:
Co-founded Canada’s national Pain Medicine subspecialty.
Led the establishment of the UBC Pain Medicine Residency program with multiple pain medicine training sites.
Built multi-disciplinary clinics -including Changepain Medical & Allied Health clinic - that have served over 65,000 patients.
Led patient care policy, specialist qualification and clinic safety standards to make care safer and more effective.
These outcomes didn’t appear overnight - they resulted from decades of learning, testing, and never accepting “that’s just how it is.”
Every change I’ve helped build - whether a program, a clinic, or a policy- is founded on the guiding principle that when people are seen and equipped with knowledge, everything works better.
My toolkits, stories, and frameworks are free because they’re part of a larger mission: to remove barriers, build understanding, and put power back where it belongs - with you.
Each resource is grounded in research, refined by real feedback, and designed to meet women where they are - whether at home, in the boardroom, or starting over.
This isn’t just a sign-up - it’s a promise to show up for yourself. When you join, you take the first step toward caring for your body, your energy, and your clarity - with Dr. Brenda Lau guiding you along the way.

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